Hello All!
Planning a wedding would be so difficult without the help of the lovely ladies in your life! They’ve been your shoulder to cry on, they’ve offered advice, and they’ve been there for you every step of the way as you planned one of the biggest events of your life. What will you give them as a token of your appreciation?
A Gift to Start
If you’re just starting the wedding planning process, and haven’t chosen your bridesmaids yet, consider starting off by offering them a small token of your appreciation! Send them flowers, with a sweet note asking them to be your bridesmaid. Or, give them a little card expressing how important their friendship is to you. WeddingAccessories.net offers a sweet selection of cards, like the card to the right, which could be perfect for your bridesmaids! If it’s a close group of girlfriends, consider inviting them all over to your house for a glass of wine and making the announcement that you hope to have them as your bridal party.
A Monogrammed Gift
One of the most personal gifts you can give is a monogrammed gift! It’s so personal, it shows how much thought you’ve put into it, and it’s something your best friends will treasure forever. These monogrammed tote bags are so versatile and trendy! I love the idea of filling these bags with goodies and passing them out to the bridal party. They’re also perfect for a destination wedding – fill ‘em with magazines, SPF 15, and snack foods and present them to each lady before the trip! With This Favor offers the following bag to the left for all your bridesmaid’s needs.
Gift Certificates
I love the idea of giving out gift certificates to my bridesmaids – it will allow them to go redeem them for something they’ll truly love! The key to making it personal? Choose something you know they’ll adore. You don’t need to get the same thing for everyone (although it’s a good idea to spend the same amount, because they will compare notes!). Gift certificates to local yoga studios, restaurants, spas, or boutiques are always appreciated, and you can choose them based on personality! Put them in a pretty card with a personal note, and tie it with a ribbon.
When to Give Bridesmaid Gifts
While it is traditional to give out the gifts just before the ceremony, it’s truly up to you! If you are giving something that you want the girls to wear or use during the wedding, consider giving it a little in advance so they can plan around it. Find a time that is calm and that you will be able to focus 100% on your friends. Many brides choose to have a ladies luncheon a few days before the wedding – this is a perfect time to present your friends with gifts. Treat your bridesmaid to a Monogrammed Polka Dot Tumbler that is personalized with their initial!
Good Friends
If you have a good friend who was not a part of the bridal party (many brides have family-only bridesmaids), it’s a sweet gesture to give her a small token of appreciation as well. Let her know how much you appreciate her efforts!
Presenting your bridal party with a token of your appreciation is so important – after all, they’ve done so much to help you arrive where you are today. On that note, don’t forget to also remind hubby-to-be to take care of his groomsmen gifts! You will find a popular groomsmen gift to the left, Silver Square Cuff Links, from With This Favor that will delight the fellas!


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